Many people were a little surprised to learn that my idea of relaxing and recharging is to share a beach weekend house with a group of strangers on Fire Island for the summer. It’s common practice for 20 something’s from New York to “do a share” in Ocean Beach, FI, but perhaps not 40 something professionals.

As a Floridian, I firmly believe that life is better at the beach and it’s one of the few places I truly relax. I decided this year to combine the tranquility of the beach with the stimulation of expanding my circle of friends. So, I signed up to spend six weeks this summer with strangers in a lovely home called the High Dune Inn right on the ocean.

I’m happy to report that it’s been an absolutely wonderful experience. Sitting at my desk today looking at my weekend bag, I just can’t wait to jump on the train to the ferry that takes me back to a simpler time.

Here’s what I’ve learned this summer:

Nothing is more therapeutic than pulling a wagon
Bike bells are much more pleasant than car horns
I can still dance ‘til 4am
Pilates on the beach sounds more fun than it is
Strangers can become friends in a weekend
It’s more fun to watch a movie with a big group of people
Outdoor showers are exhilarating
Stress rolls away with each wave
Napping is contagious
Sangria tastes better on the beach
Mosquitoes think I’m sweet
Sunset hues always inspire me

How do you recharge in the summer?